Freedom of speech

This morning I've been researching the topic "freedom of speech" It seems that most of the sites I've looked at feel as though they do not really have freedom of speech. Particularly when it comes to music and movies. These sites are trying to make sence of the first amendment and some are putting a twist on it. I feel that freedom of speech should be based on respect for your fellow american. Dont say or do things that you wouldn't want to be said or done to you, your friends. or your family.